I'm not going to talk about Mission or Purpose. Instead, I want to share with you the Thesis I have been developing for over 10 years, which, with each session—whether in groups or individually—confirms and reinforces my theories and studies.
 

I will start with a bit more about my story. Although I have already introduced myself, here I want to explore more deeply what I believe and, in the end, offer a gift for you to better understand my work. This material will be just a "tasting" of what you can access by joining your Journey of Reconnection and Overcoming Self-Abuse. So, shall we begin?
 

You may have known me for a while or just arrived; it doesn't matter. What you need to know is that the woman you are talking to has transformed with every difficulty faced. These transformations were not burdens but opportunities for growth.
 

Let me share a piece of my journey… When I was between 5 and 7 years old, I experienced abuse caused by a child 7 years older. At that time, understanding and supervision were limited, as my parents were busy working to support the family. It was painful to understand what really happened only later, and I carried a guilt that wasn’t mine.
 

Moreover, I felt that my existence was not accepted. Everything I did seemed wrong and was constantly repressed. A child does not understand these dynamics, and over time, develops strategies to "survive."
 

My adolescence, youth, and adulthood were marked by challenges. I went through phases of accusation, victimization, and the desire to save everyone around me, as if I were in a dramatic triangle.
 

Over time and with maturity, I sought help through training and therapy. These experiences brought clarity and adjustments to my way of thinking and acting, making life lighter and more fluid. Of course, nothing is perfect, but the weight I carried before disappeared.

And how does this connect with my Thesis? Everything! When I started seeing clients almost 10 years ago, I realized that abuse goes beyond the sexual aspect. It is any situation that crosses boundaries and makes you feel overwhelmed and disrespected. This can occur in various situations, even before we are born!

Through the application of this knowledge, I noticed that we repeat what we learn. If we don’t learn to have our boundaries respected, how will we do this in adulthood? Often, we end up neglecting our own needs to meet external expectations. I’m not talking about selfishness but about balance. Abuse compromises self-love and perpetuates patterns and issues acquired through epigenetics.
 

Thus, my work is:

1. To help you recognize these patterns and identify the true origins of your problems.

2. To teach self-responsibility and the necessary changes for your growth.

3. To provide tools so that you can emotionally self-regulate and make wise decisions.

4. To assist in creating new neural connections and habits to model your behavior according to your desires and not repeat old patterns.
    

If this resonates with you, you are in the right place.
 

As a gift, I am offering valuable material that will further deepen your knowledge of my Thesis and provide practical tools. Enjoy, it’s free—just click the link below!
 

Reminder: You can listen (35 minutes duration) or print and read. Feel free to choose what is most comfortable.
To receive the gift in English, send me a message.
 

I hope to see you soon on this journey of reconnection and overcoming self-abuse!

Carla Schiapim