"Reconnecting with yourself is the key to transforming pain
through the power of loving yourself. Enough Chegadeautoabuso, let's set limits!
From the moment we enter this world, our search for a home begins. Initially, our family of origin should be that safe haven, but often, the welcome we need is not fully provided. As we grow, we try to create our own home – whether by starting a family, realizing our dreams or building our personal achievements. However, we often feel that this sense of belonging remains always out of reach, distant and elusive. This is where the concept of self-abuse becomes crucial.
The impact of self-abuse can be devastating. The abuse we experience as children often leads us to treat ourselves with undue cruelty. The word “abuse” comes from Latin and means something that deviates from the norm, from what is acceptable, and this deviation can manifest itself in many ways—emotional, psychological, physical. Over time, this initial abuse can turn into a painful cycle of self-abuse, where we fail to set boundaries for ourselves and others. The search for external solutions to internal problems keeps us on a perpetual journey, seeking outside what we cannot find within.
As Marília de Camargo Cézar points out in her book "The Heart of Every Woman," we are often so accustomed to looking for solutions outside of ourselves that we forget that the true answer lies within us. The idea that "you are your home" is a profound and powerful truth. Everything about you is written within you, waiting to be discovered.
If you want to learn how to prioritize yourself, learn how to say no to what overwhelms you, identify what really matters and know how to set healthy boundaries, I am here to help. Based on my experiences and studies, I have had the privilege of guiding thousands of people on their journey of self-knowledge and transformation, converting pain into a powerful force of self-love.
Stay tuned and discover how you can find your true inner home and achieve genuine transformation. Let’s go on this journey of discovery and healing together!
Who am I?
My childhood
Hello, I'm Carla Schiapim. It's a pleasure to see you here.
I'll try to tell you a little about my story, so we can get to know each other even better and strengthen our connection.
I am the daughter of two people from Paraíba who moved to São Paulo, the capital. I was born in 1982 and I have two younger brothers who I love very much. I grew up in a large family, surrounded by many cousins, and always surrounded by friends, with whom I played tag and hide-and-seek in the streets. I also played a lot of video games and theater. Since I was little, I have always been curious about how the human mind works and how it impacts our daily lives.
I have ADHD, so I was a very scolded child. I suffered a lot verbally and physically. I also suffered abuse... Unfortunately, at that time, there wasn't much talk about sex education and how the various abuses we experience in childhood have an impact on our lives.
Adult Life
As you can see, my childhood wasn't perfect, and that's okay; it's part of life. "What really makes a difference is not what happened to us, but what we do with it" (Victor Frank, in his book - Man's Search for Meaning). This decision made all the difference in my life!
I got married in 2008 to a wonderful person, and together we built many dreams. One of them was to live in another country. In 2016, we moved to Montreal, Québec, Canada, and we have been here ever since. Being an immigrant is a huge challenge; there is no glamour at all! It was very difficult to be away from my family, my friends, my routine, and even the simplest things, like the taste of bananas, papayas, and many fruits (believe me, it's different), or even a trip to the market. I went through tough times, such as a miscarriage, panic attacks, and much more. However, this journey helped me learn to love myself, appreciate my marriage, and face each challenge.
As I wrote earlier, I have undertaken a lot; I have become a great researcher and scholar of the mind and human behavior.
I have a degree in Social Sciences, with a postgraduate degree in Sexuality and Emotional Health from the University of Brasília and in Neuroscience and Behavior from PUC. I am a specialist in Epigenetics from the University of Melbourne, in Neurolinguistic Programming from the Coach Québec Institute and the International Coaching Community, and I have more than 20 specializations, including Reichian Psychology, Psychosomatics, and other related areas.
Here in Canada, I am a member of the L’Association des Naturothérapeutes du Québec, , which allows for full or partial reimbursement of my consultations, depending on your insurance provide
I am very eager to help you on your journey of self-discovery and hope with all my heart to have the opportunity to be together.
See you soon,
Carla Schiapim
Services
For over 20 years, I have been immersing myself in the world of human development. My journey began in Human Resources, where I managed hiring, careers, and created strategic projects focused on personal and professional growth. Since 2016, I have redirected my work to therapy and education, teaching courses for Doulas, Therapists, and Human Resources professionals, as well as giving lectures at charities, companies, and schools.
Along the way, I have developed a unique methodology that integrates all my knowledge and certifications. Do you want to know how I can help you discover more about yourself and make significant changes for a lighter life that is aligned with what really matters? Explore below and let yourself be surprised by the possibilities for transformation that I can offer you.
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